My friend and boyfriend flirting behind my back
So i feel that my boyfriend and best friend are doing things behind my back. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and it has been very rough. he hasn't been honest with me and when he doesn't get his way he enjoys packing his things and leaving.
so i just don't trust him enough for him to tell me anything if my friend were to touch him or flirt behind my back, especially if he enjoys it. Every time my back is turned and i turn around i look at them and they both look at me with quilt, and then later on my boyfriend ask me whats wrong, as if i caught them. I just don't kno what to do i just have this gut feeling, and it happens so fast, that i cant accuse unless if i really see it with my eyes, i just always see them so close to each other. I kno my boyfriend is attracted to him, he looks at his butt all the time. I just don't kno how to catch them, or if i do catch them what to do. I had visions of grabbing a pot or pan or even knife and just attacking the both of them. uuuuugh what do i do???
so i just don't trust him enough for him to tell me anything if my friend were to touch him or flirt behind my back, especially if he enjoys it. Every time my back is turned and i turn around i look at them and they both look at me with quilt, and then later on my boyfriend ask me whats wrong, as if i caught them. I just don't kno what to do i just have this gut feeling, and it happens so fast, that i cant accuse unless if i really see it with my eyes, i just always see them so close to each other. I kno my boyfriend is attracted to him, he looks at his butt all the time. I just don't kno how to catch them, or if i do catch them what to do. I had visions of grabbing a pot or pan or even knife and just attacking the both of them. uuuuugh what do i do???
30 mrt 2012
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MelissaB
vrijdag 30 maart 2012 11:52
uhmm dit moet je niet lullig opvatten ofzo want zo bedoel ik het zeker niet maar ben je gay? (ik vind homo's juist leuk dus don't be scared)
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mane (opgeheven op 24-6-2012)
vrijdag 30 maart 2012 11:56
....... -_-'
@Marzz: communication...tell him how you feel, without pointing the finger at him. Flirting is ok, but if your feeling says it isn't, then talk about it. -
Ingrain (opgeheven op 13-9-2015)
vrijdag 30 maart 2012 12:15
@melissaB niet lullig opvatten, maar niet iedereen kent nederlands op deze site
Translation of melissaB's reaction:
"Don't see this wrong but, are you gay? (I like them gays so don't be scared)"
- something like that. real short version.
I agree with Mane on this one, if your feelings say it hurts to think about him flirting with someone, you should gently tell him. At least when he knows and can help you either get rid of the nasty feelings and such, or you'll find out what's going on through that. any way you look at it, it's best to know and feel good in your relationship, right? -
MelissaB
vrijdag 30 maart 2012 12:58
@ingrain oke
kom ik ook vandaag pas achter
good transelation
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