what would you do if your best friend..
what would you do if your best friend went be hind your back and started seeing a guy you dated and lied about it? and it not being the first?
one of my best friends is dateing my ex and has been for almost 3 months i try to act like i dont care but she had promised me that she wouldn't do this to me.
not only am i mad that she lied to me and this is the second guy shes dated that i have already gone out with but the fact that she would even do somthing like this to me is unbelievable and i just dont know what to say to her.
i have tried to talk to her several times but it like totaly back fired -____- shes my best friend so am i sapose to just let it go or should i just do something about it i am so confuised i hate it..
not only is she dating him but she has changed to, and im not the only one who has noticed it. all over our friends have to, she has lost contact with all of us she never hangs out with me any more and she use to spend every weekend at my house and now we hardly see each other in the hall ways. she ignores every one and only walks with her bf and his best friend.. its really sad.. and i want my best friend back!
what do you think i should do PLEASE help me i need answers comment
one of my best friends is dateing my ex and has been for almost 3 months i try to act like i dont care but she had promised me that she wouldn't do this to me.
not only am i mad that she lied to me and this is the second guy shes dated that i have already gone out with but the fact that she would even do somthing like this to me is unbelievable and i just dont know what to say to her.
i have tried to talk to her several times but it like totaly back fired -____- shes my best friend so am i sapose to just let it go or should i just do something about it i am so confuised i hate it..
not only is she dating him but she has changed to, and im not the only one who has noticed it. all over our friends have to, she has lost contact with all of us she never hangs out with me any more and she use to spend every weekend at my house and now we hardly see each other in the hall ways. she ignores every one and only walks with her bf and his best friend.. its really sad.. and i want my best friend back!
what do you think i should do PLEASE help me i need answers comment
14 jun 2012
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Mayabella
donderdag 14 juni 2012 04:07
I would just stop hanging out with her and just not talk to her at all. Just hang out with your other friends the ones that you know and didn't change because of some guy. And if she notices she'll ask whats wrong and tell her the truth but also sprinkle alil bit of lies in there. Just to cover up some marks of the truth that isn't really good. Hope that helps foxgirl11, good luck!
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Xuraz
donderdag 14 juni 2012 09:41
Surely it's better she dates them after you've broken up than before. Just tell her that you feel she has forgotten all about you and if she can spend more time with you. If she doesn't want to it's a clear message but atm it might just be that she doesn't realize what is happening.
What mayabella says is ridiculous. Why start lying? Sure, if you have no self respect whatsoever you can do that but lying is totally unnecessary, it will make you a manipulative and untrustworthy bitch.
If you two can't work stuff out by talking about it you'll just have to accept the friendship is lost. If you can't work things out at your age, it doesn't bode well for the future. -
foxgirl11
donderdag 14 juni 2012 22:53
thats the thing she has even when i was with them ive tried to talk to her but she always had pushed the topic aside i kinda gave up after that point and just pretended that it didnt bother me at all and yea i dont really want to lie. it wouldnt do good and i dotn want to be like that but thank you for your apinion. both of you i apreciate both of your appinions (:
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